HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS: THE QUEST & THE ANSWER BY RICHARD B AJAMAH.
All unhappiness is a result of trying to meet our needs through human relationships. When another human being fails to meet our needs, we become frustrated and unhappy. We are finite, and therefore do not expect to find final sufficiency in any human relationship, including marriage. The final sufficiency is to be found only in a relationship with God. But on the basis of the FINISHED WORK OF CHRIST, through the agency of the Holy Spirit and the instrument of faith , there can be a substantial healing of relationships, and thus true joy . Modern multiple divorce is rooted in the fact that many are seeking in human relationships what human relationships can never give. Why do they have multiple divorce, instead of merely promiscous affairs? Because they are seeking more than merely the sexual relationship . But they can never find it, because what they are seeking does not exist in a purely finite relationship. It is like trying to quench thirst by swallowing sand . If man tries to fin